Whenever J & L fight over a toy or argue about something, I tell them to ‘work it out’. Very rarely do they actually find a solution to their problem. More often I end up sending them both to time out or taking the toy under debate. I chose this approach about a year ago after I found myself always asking J to concede because he was older. I was certain that he was not always in the wrong and that I was being unfair to him. While I’m not sure if my new approach is any better than before, I’m hoping that eventually they will be able to work it out without me.
As we approach the end of summer I’ve been working out our school year schedules. My reign as SAHM started during the summer so this new routine will be new to me. I’m guessing that I will welcome the busier days, the mandated structure and new adventures. Only a week and a half left!
Lessons I learned today:
· 10 days is too long to go without doing some sort of physical activity
· Always accept an invitation to go to a friend’s pool (especially when there is a water slide)
· Sometimes it takes patience, sometimes creativity, often it takes time but eventually we can work it out!
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